Anna update

Just thought I'd keep you posted on the Anna situation.

Anyone who hasn't been keeping up with it or is new, here is a quick recap...

I met her at work in the toilets and we had a quick grope, things progressed slowly until we dated a couple of times and ended up in bed (3 times). She is a lesbian (she's sure now!) and I think she's falling for me.

I haven't told you about the 3rd time we got it on, it was very much like the time I spent with Maria (older woman who was a senior manager at another office in Germany). It was more lovemaking than hot sex. It was this that prompted me to arrange a lunch date with her the next day. I felt I had to talk to her and stop her infatuation in me before it got out of hand.

It was tough, she was very clingy on the way to the cafe and in a happy mood. It was doubly hard as there is the language barrier. Germans speak excellent English but you need to keep it very plain and simple. Explaining emotions is particularly difficult.

I told her that I enjoyed her company, found her very attractive but I don't want a relationship and will (and have!) sleep with other men and women. I said I want to keep seeing her sexually if she still wants to and I thought it was time for her to try and find a girlfriend now that she was clear about who she was. She did get tearful and it was hard for a while. I was frightened she would storm off and start bad mouthing me to everyone at work but as she isn't officially out yet I assumed I would be OK for now. Eventually she calmed down and saw it from my point of view. She asked me who I had been with since I'd been seeing her but I declined to say (Good job really, if you read back through my blog you'll find quite a few!).

It went quiet for a few days but when I came back this week I got an email from her asking if we could fuck again. She'd bought a few toys in a sex shop over the weekend and wanted to try them out.

We had a wild time! I made sure I didn't kiss or hug her and we were back to having hot lesbian sex again. She vented some frustration on my ass with a whip she had bought but I think I deserved it don't you?

Sara

xx